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September 4, 2001 Uncle Milton's WeddingMy Uncle Milton is my mom's youngest brother. He is a very successful CPA, and has a beautiful home on St. Louis Heights. He always drove a nice car, and gave us graduation presents so generous that we called them "Uncle Milton's Scholarship" . And, until Sunday, he was a bachelor. Uncle Milton's wedding on Sunday was absolutely beautiful. In the past two years, I have gone to over twenty weddings, but this one was one of the best. I can't really put my finger on why, though... I mean, it was just like any other wedding in many respects - there was a matron of honor and a best man, a wedding cake, and a receiving line. The bride's father walked his daughter down the aisle, to her soon-to-be husband. There was glass clinking and a bouquet presentation. On the other hand, there was no garter belt toss or cake cutting. There was no first dance or head table. But it didn't seem to make a big difference. It was something else... I think that "something else" was maturity. Uncle Milton and his bride are in their 40's, and this is the first wedding for both of them. So their wedding program and guest list were filled with only their dearest friends, colleagues, and family members. Every person in attendance had a strong relationship to the couple. Instead of the "traditional" program components, there were a lot of "speeches" . There was the woman who spoke about Uncle Milton's integrity, personality, and charm. She was his secretary for his entire career at his current job - over 18 years. There was the man who talked about meeting the couple just two years ago, but couldn't help but develop such a close relationship to them. He was the contractor who built their home. There was the lady who told the story of how the couple met. She was the matron of honor, and best friend of the bride. Then there were the newlyweds. When they spoke, saying their thank yous, and talking about each other, the sincerity was so powerful. I guess I can't really understand what made their wedding so wonderful because I haven't had the life experiences that they did. But I don't think that really matters, anyway. Uncle Milton has a beautiful wife, and I couldn't be happier for both of them.
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